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Old Sep 11, 2009, 11:01 AM
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Abby, I am convinced that people who focus on the world and how miserable it is have a lot of issues deep inside where their inner child is just miserable. These things can be worked on.

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I'm angry at myself for being me. I'm angry ....that i'm so tied to my own weaknesses and flaws ... I hate every weakness and flaw and want to smash them out of existance! Why should i have to accept imperfection in order to be 'happy'?

I have no way out of this. It is demoralising.
Do you understand where your self hate came from?

My question is why do you want perfection? Perfection is no way to live. It is very stressful. Who "taught" you that perfection is the way to live your life?

There is a way out..........
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........

I'm an ISFJ
Thanks for this!
Abby