You need to stop shouting and say to him that you want to talk to him seriously - without interruptions. Then tell him all the issues you mentioned on this website. Then you must ask him what he has to say and you must listen. Above all, you must decide where you are going in life and if you can share a life together.Both of you must accommodate each others plans. If he will not talk to you properly or if both of you cannot work out plans for the future together, then you must seriously consider if you should stay in the relationship at all. After all, the situation is causing you stress and while you are with him, you are not meeting anybody else. Have you considered trying to get some kind of work? This would improve your self esteem and get your mind off the relationship - at least some of the time.