hi Roxy,

Jmo, but your feelings about sex are very common after a rape and SA.
Are you seeing a therapist so you can talk about your feelings?
It can be of great benefit to both you and your husband. Your relationship is going to be greatly changed after these events.

He may have some issues, but they can stem from his anger about what happened to you...
Perhaps having a very honest talk about your concerns about him would be helpful.

There are so many things to be worked through now, and I wish you the very best. Please keep posting and let us know how you are, ok?

In Peace
Catherine