Dear Kris
I have been with my T for approx 4 years. At the start he said he would never intentionally hurt me. And I can say that he never has.
The times when I have been hurt have been a result from my not understanding what he was really saying. So I now stop him as soon as I can and ask him what he meant. Then things get cleared up.
A good T is hard to find. Best wishes.
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