I don't know what to say, other than (( rapunzel )) ((and anyone else who feels that way ))

I never feel like this, therefore I can't really relate. In fact, it's almost the opposite -- I frequently buy myself "prizes" for doing a good job (little things -- like cleaning the house earns me a prize; weeding the garden earns me a prize; doing my homework earns me a prize). I do tend to spend more money on other people than I would for myself, but if other people "deserve" space on earth, then by god so do I!

Please, try to be kind to yourselves. You might as well, because at the end, you're not going to win an award for the least self-selfish (that's not a word, but I can't think of a better one) person. You might as well live in style!

Hugs,
LMo