Julie, I am soooo sorry. My life and yours sound so much the same except your husband is trying to help and talks to your T.
I hope you don't end up going. How long were you in there last time? Did it help you?
Our Ts sound alike as well. I had to call mine tonight because I was so stressed out - at least I called before I did something and he was proud of me.......course I was at work, if I hadn't been, I might not have called.
You still have time to straighten things out with everyone. Work on trying not to cut and tell them how you feel about going to the hospital.
I hope you will be ok........my thoughts are with you 100%.
Mary Alice