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Old Sep 12, 2009, 11:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Foramir View Post
I found out I lost a Battle Buddy a week ago and I have not felt upset at the loss yet. Is that normal? I feel bad about not seeming to care about losing one of my closest friends. Me and him even jumped out of helicopters together. What is wrong with me?
Foramir,
There is nothing wrong with you. Nothing.
Putting aside this kind of sorrow is taking care of yourself. When you have many things going on in your life, sometimes one more thing can topple us.
It's all right to take your time in grieving...we follow our individual ways of handling a tragedy.
Respect it. It's what you need to do for you right now.

Normal? Yes.
Something wrong with you? No.

In Peace
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Foramir