I will tell you what my T told me which is starting to sink in. Predators know who to choose. They know the signs like weaknesses that is how we tend to be abused time and time agin. We know no other way too because that has been our life. Please know that you are not alone. You are not to blame telling me's too. We are none of us to blame. Predators are out there and they know what to look for some how.