Sounds like you are dreaming about the perfect man. Certainly, if you take opportunities, you will meet the perfect man for you, and you will see in him this man of your dreams, whether or not he is dressed all in white! Possibly, the more you dwell on him in your day dreams, the less will be the need for him to appear in your nightly dreams. I have found this to be the case with the man who repeatedly appeared in my night dreams, i.e. my ex-husband.