I have to agree with the above. Often dreams reflect something we have "seen", not necessarily in person, but in movies, books, murder mysteries, the like. The memory stays in the background of your mind, not the foreground or you would work through it in the waking state. In your dreams, however, the mind brings it to the fore, to note it's presence, to observe that it serves no need in your mind, and to therefore rid the mind of it. Naturally, at 14, dreaming of something horrid happening to a woman would make you run and check your mother! Just some stray thoughts ~ billieJ