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Old Sep 14, 2009, 08:43 AM
I_WMD I_WMD is offline
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Originally Posted by Pup View Post
I find that some people are extremely rude and insensitive in that room sometimes, or they say things that are quite insulting to others.

I also don't like to say this, but some people do give off an attention seeking vibe.

I feel like that room is also used for the wrong room, sometimes people chit chat in there, and that's not why it is there, it is there for support, and support only.

I do think that many people can come in and bounce around the walls with their problems, which does make focusing and actually supporting quite difficult, especially if previous to that, there was a one on one support conversation going on. Regarding that, it may be best to make a room for the two who are conversing and focusing on one another, so then that is not broken.

However, this may then feel like the person(or people) who join the room may feel bad/guilty/alone or something if they are left alone without support.

Hard to get around... any suggestions?
Sometimes it works out if two peeps who are focusing on an individual topic put themselves on away and do a private chat ,, then when finished return to room while still on away and observe >> that way if one of the two that are still on away >> have anymore to work out or help resolve as the support topic was ,, they can drop back to private ...

Sometimes even when doing one on one support ya need to distract for a moment and then continue ....

WMD.

Thanks for this!
Lost71