Personally I would just tell him. If your not happy than by all means tell him. If he gets mad than he will need to get over it. You know my bf doesn't like everything I tell him either, and when I need to tell him something, I'm going to do it weather he likes it or not. Just when you tell him try to say I's instead of you. Like for an example say, I feel like I get ignored when there is a family function. Instead of saying you ignore me when there is a family function. That way your not blamming him, and he might be more willing to listen. That's what I do anyways, and it works for me. Tishie did make a good point about you asking him for a commitment. I do this with my bf also. I just ask him when are we going to get married. Keep posting so that we know how you are doing.