Hi , He never talks marriage...people call here all the time ( telemarketers) and ask for mrs ? and I say " there isn't one living here " If I try to talk to him about anything I sometimes get ignored for days . I feel like I'm just here to cook,clean,friend with benefits & help him around his house ..but that is as far as its going. He tells me he loves me and wants me in his life but he doesn't show it until it gets bad enough for me to leave. I don't want to leave I just want to feel like I belong ..I think I'm fighting a losing battle.He knows I have nowhere to go & no money to do it with. he doesn't want me to work .