very simple....He doesn't want you and he's a total jerk....what are you his doctor, mother, sister that you care about him and you want to cure him????
come on girl...try to go out with other guys and flirt with other guys....and close his chapter...I know it's easy to say, but this is the truth....

I'm like you too....if you read my previous posts, you will see how frustrated I was and how I made fool of myself trying so hard to be with him....Now, that I can think more clearly, I know that he didn't want me....he was just keeping me aside, because he couldn't replace me easily....then he went out so much without me till he found another girl....that's how guys are....

Honesty, I think we should learn from them and do the same thing...

don't quite your job....make him so drunk that the security guard kick him out of the shop....smart move....he will be so embarrassed then!

take care
Marjan