So, during T today there was a point where I could feel one of the littles (7 year old) was trying to come forward a little. I wouldn't let her...I can't. I trust T, but I don't trust losing control of myselves. This little has a very bad temper and if she doesn't get her way, she can turn on ya.
I was playing mancala with T and we were talking about past stuff when she decided to try to come forward a bit. I put a stop to it.

I let her play at home, I let her color, I let her watch cartoons and I talk to her. Why would she want to come out to T? She doesn't trust anyone....
Maybe I should write something down to give to T?

I am really confused and can't figure out if even telling T would be a good thing.

Any thoughts?