((((Catherine)))) ...Thanks for this but I don't think I explained myself right. If someone doesn't know what love is and has never had care...how do they know if what they feel for a man who treats them right is love or return care? And if it is love, how can they love more than one man just coz more than one man is treating them right? If it isn't love then how do they know?

Does this sound as confused as I am? And does it make any sense?