((((((NuckingFutz)))))))) ...You have to do what you have to do to keep yourself safe. I know any reminders of all of this will just hurt you more than you need. We all get mixed up with folks we regret getting mixed up with. This doesn't mean we have to pay for it for life! If she can't handle things, she can always get support elsewhere. An anonymous phoneline if she is too ashamed to talk to anyone IRL.

Please don't feel guilty for taking care of you through all this. Sorry that's all the advice I got tonight, hun, but my support is here always, ok?