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Sep 15, 2009, 11:05 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2009
Location: Phoenix, AZ, USA
Posts: 2,779
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HI William,
I'm the person who answered your questions about adult children of alcoholics. In light of this most recent question, I think you really need to ask yourself whether you want an open, up-front relationship with this girl or if you simply have trust issues yourself regarding the women you choose and those issues get communicated in various subconscious ways to the woman in your life?
You had asked me if "women like her" want bad relationships. Honestly, truth be told, I'm wondering if you are the "bad relationship". I wouldn't want to be dating someone who didn't trust me or automatically assumes that I have issues because of my family background. I do not mean to insult you, Wiliam. I am simply pointing out that "spying" on your girlfriend is not an admirable thing to do. It doesn't indicate a very good foundation for a good relationshiop. 
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 Vickie
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