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Sep 15, 2009, 01:15 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: Miami
Posts: 53
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Originally Posted by Vickie in Phoenix
HI William,
I'm the person who answered your questions about adult children of alcoholics. In light of this most recent question, I think you really need to ask yourself whether you want an open, up-front relationship with this girl or if you simply have trust issues yourself regarding the women you choose and those issues get communicated in various subconscious ways to the woman in your life?
You had asked me if "women like her" want bad relationships. Honestly, truth be told, I'm wondering if you are the "bad relationship". I wouldn't want to be dating someone who didn't trust me or automatically assumes that I have issues because of my family background. I do not mean to insult you, Wiliam. I am simply pointing out that "spying" on your girlfriend is not an admirable thing to do. It doesn't indicate a very good foundation for a good relationshiop. 
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Hi Vickie in Phoenix:
Thanks again for responding to this, and I know you don't mean to insult me. The truth is, you may not be all too wrong in assuming that I may be the "bad relationship". However, under the circumstances and everything that's happened between me & my girlfriend wouldn't you be suspicious or leary? Don't you have to take things like; family upbringing, values into consideration when becoming serious with someone?
Before this I was involved with a girl who cheated on me and did everything imaginable so I hope you can see why I'm being extra careful about this one. Thanks so much for giving me your advice Vickie, Phoenix Rocks!
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