there is a huge difference there though. just because someone else does wrong to you does not mean someone else will do the same thing. honestly I don't see you have a good reason not to trust her. I am a married woman. been with him 12 yrs. I use to train male truck drivers. on the road with them for a month at a time. I am so thankful my husband trusted me as he does. most of my friends are men. again I am really happy my husband trusts me. without it we would have nothing at all.