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Lost71 · Sep 15, 2009, 09:27 PM

Hi VIP

Thanks for this!

I do have a lot of guy friends and mostly we just hang. Thing is they all know I love them all to pieces and would do anything for them, but they all know I would never even think of having sex with them, it's not that kind of a relationship. But we also got nothing against hugging each other all night if one is upset or sad, got nothing against "kinky" dancing in the club etc., and we're not shy about saying "Luv Ya" either. For me, I'm just more at ease with guys than women being I grew up around guys and women were aliens

But occassionally a new guy comes on the scene and takes my "ease" or "love" for him the wrong way. (Can't help that I'm a loving person) And there are occassions when I get closer to one guy than others, and vice versa, and if I've already got a bf around then I get confused. Like how can I feel strongly for one guy when I'm already with another? I've also had problems in the past staying faithful when some guy has given me big attention that the bf hasn't been. ...That is being slutty, right?

Again, thanks for this, it does help.