Wrong? That is such a strong word. I think you can figure out things that you would do differently in the future? Yeah, living together is highly overrated, eh? I think you are doing plenty right now, getting your life back in order. I agree with the others. Get your stuff. Send him a letter, keep a copy, send it certified mail if you can, return receipt. Tell him you want your possessions (itemize them if you can) within ten days. Then, if he won't let you, call the law. If you find you can't do this. Then write it off. And him. If you can let it go, let it go. Sometimes we have to suffer for others' actions.

Take care of you. I hope you are able to get into day help. Did your T help you at all? TC!