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Old Sep 16, 2009, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted by Lost71 View Post
This is where I fail with every bf. I got no problem talking openly with guys but bf's are another matter. I tend to bottle things up with a bf. Till my gasket blows or things fall apart. Maybe I should learn to write things down in relationships and hand it to over to be read when I'm not there.

Thanks for this advice though, it's all useful insight.
I know that can be very hard to show that your vulnerable. I have had this problem to. Your afraid that he will hurt that side of you. I still think that you should tell your bf when your not getting what you need. If you feel better writing it down that is good. I have had to do this also. When you start trusting him than you will be able to start telling him. Men feel love to when you tell them what you need. They start falling more in love when the feel your emotions.
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