My brother's girlfriend miscarried yesterday. She was told she'd never be able to get pregnant She'd tried for 6 years with her ex husband. (He now has a child w/his new wife.) I barely know her even though they've been dating 5 months. She seems to be shy and I am so shy and so lacking in social skills. Besides we haven't had chances to really be around each other, but I guess i could've invited them over for dinner or something. I only knew about the pregnancy for 2 weeks at most, but I never congratulated her myself.
I feel horrible for my brother, but I feel worse for her b/c of her background. Is that wrong? I've talked to my brother and feel I've helped him. I need to talk to her don't I? But, I d/k what to say. I was scared to talk to her before and now? I'm crossposting this to depression I hope that's ok.