Paddy,

I am sure that I am over-reacting.......but this came to me......and I would like someone to tell me if I am out of line here.......for it hurt me a little.....

When you speak of violent people that have abused or hurt another individual should not be here(Not exact words sorry...) do you mean irl or on this website?.......

For I am both a "perpetrator" and a "victim".........I have committed acts of violence in the past which I have paid heavily for......

But I also seek forgiveness from those people I have hurt and to forgive my spirit in the process.......

Am I to be banned for I have been violent, yet seek to repair my damaged spirit?

For the healing is part of the process and if I can ever offer soft words to someone who is struggling with the same compulsions as I have had, am I not part of the process, the solution? Instead of the problem?

My heart feels heavy.......

Michah