Marc,
Thank you for sharing and letting us know how you are...

PC is a good community for support but it's also a place where people are honest with each other...in a kind and loving way.
We give, we get.
You've given us food for thought in our own relationships, and for this, I thank you.

My instinct...poor way of putting it, but I think you and your wife are going to come through this and find joy in being together.

In Peace