Quote:
Originally Posted by BlueMoon6
Thanks Bloom- maybe it is a sign that this isnt the t for me. Or..I dont know...Im not so good at reading "signs." I agree that cancelling 45 min before a session with someone new and not knowing if the client got the message is real bad. If I like the other t's next week I'll write her off.
|
sounds like a good plan to me blue. i'm sure at least one of these Ts will be good. sounds like you're weeding out the duds so far.
Quote:
|
Are you really going to tell your friend you are posting on a psych site? Do you think he'd look around for you?
|
i've been wanting to tell him for awhile and even post related things on my blog, but since he would have been able to identify me here so easily i hadn't. it still wouldn't be very difficult if he wanted to find me but chances are he wouldn't go looking. he's an online friend and i really don't know if he'd be curious to find my posts or not. we met on a message board we both used to be on and one time i posted on another site that is sort of related to that one. months later i went back to that other site and saw he had left a post right after mine on a thread. i'm sure he'd just happened onto the site and saw me using the same username and so clicked on it. i don't know, maybe i should think about this some more or change some other things online that might identify me too easily.
Quote:
|
I was feeling so out of it today and depressed. I wanted to call my t. I would like to handle these disappointments more like a grown up instead of looking for ways to numb my feelings. I guess thats what therapy is for- and I dont feel like I have therapy support right now. I cant tell my t any of this stuff and even if I could tell her how I feel, I am afraid of a tough answer. Glad I have PC to post on...and friends to see for lunch.....
|
hang in there girl. i think you'll probably find someone good soon with your other appointments. i'm glad you're here on pc and have your rl friends as well.
