[quote=sunrise;1140103]The glass door: I wouldn't do therapy in a room in which people could see me, but if it was frosted glass and no one could see in, then I would be OK with it. But I don't think the T you were there to see has this room, because none of the other rooms had glass doors. If that T who was there had been your T, surely she would have said something? So I don't think it was her and she most likely has a non-glass door./quote]
You are very right. It wasnt her or I would imagine she would have said something. She didnt even look at me when she took the other client in. The other rooms have wood doors, and I dont know if you can hear from there or not. It might be more muffled.
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Should you go back? If all other things were equal, I probably would, as I am very forgiving (a fault at times). For me it would depend on how positive I was about the other 2 therapists that were scheduled. Isn't one of them the therapist who asked a lot of personal questions on the phone? And that made you uncomfortable? Seems like that is a "sign" against her too. Who is the other one and how did your phone convo with her go?
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The other therapists are 1- the t that was on vacation and called me back (she wasnice- no questions on the phone- only quick what is your insurance questions) and 2- the t that my friend had recommended (it is her t). She was also nice and only quick insurance questions and is he schedule Ok with me (she isnt in on fridays). I am looking forward to meeting these 2 t's. The abrupt t works in the office of the vacation t but I cancelled that appt. I didnt like her questions.
I had a good look at the loooong 6 pages I wrote out about what I am looking for in a t. I have studies it to the poiint where I can bring up these subjects now without the paper! I like your question, "How ould you describe yourself as a therapist?"
These t's dont know what kind of an interview they are in for!
Interesting that you would give the reiki t another chance. I will see these other 2 t's. I left a message for the ED t (that today another friend recommended). Then I will see how I feel. I am feeling so sensitive to hurtful behviour by a t that for me to go see a t who cancelled on me at the last minute would be hard. Especially since I paid for a day of school for my daughter and she didnt need to be there and I would have preferred for her to be with me today.
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If I had had a really good impression of the Reiki T over the phone, I would probably try her again. Stuff happens. I would talk a bit about it and tell her it is really hard for you to reschedule on short notice due to your childcare situation, and ask if that happens a lot.
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I can say that. It is hard for me- I have to know in the beginning of the week which days she will be in school. They are great with me at the school about drop-ins, but it is more expensive that way and I dont want to take advantage of them there.
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I'm sorry it worked out so poorly today, BlueMoon. I guess you are expected to call her back and tell her if Friday will work for you. Hard decision... I could see it going either way, depending on how favorably you are viewing the other 2 Ts you have scheduled.
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I left her a msg- she has not yet called back!
Thanks Sunny- I will see next week- lets hope they both are where they say they will be.....
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Good for you to meet with your friends. 
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yay! goodnight.......