Well as a 21 year old man who has a child, I want to offer up these simple thoughts. Growing up, I went through my own short porn/masturbating phase, got to high school, and found a whole new world of possibilities. Mainly, it was a thought process of, "Hey, why would I do it myself when there's all these girls who are willing to do it for me?" Personally, I wish I could go back in time and rediscover my "alone time" rather than do what I did and use other people. Well, long story short, my lack of understanding and sexual habits came back to bite me in the form of my son. I guess the point I would like to make here is that I feel that the masturbating is that release that we all need, and I would much rather see younger men take care of their basic needs themselves rather than take the chance of what happened to me happening to them. This is something I have regular conversations with my younger (19) brother about because I want the best for him.

Again, just my 2 cents, hope it helps somewhat.