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Sep 18, 2009, 07:52 AM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: Miami
Posts: 53
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Originally Posted by sweetypie
hey
i have trust issues.
i have background that gives me good reasons and i am fortunate to have a bf that is understanding about this
what works for me is if i DO have an issue re trust - i spill my guts to my bf
i just spill it out and say hey. this bothers me. am i out of bounds or what?
transparency bf has no trust issues with me but all the same i DO keep a total transparency with him i tell him everything including if i get hit on, flirted with etc.but i also tell him everyday i want ONLY him he is more confident as a person, than i am so i make sure to tell him if i feel threatened, and i am also cautious in that i say hey this is ME and my insecurity it's not you i trust you i just don't trust othersfo far, it's workingi wish you the best thanks for letting me chime in  |
Hi Sweetypie,
I know have trust issues I have to deal with but right now I'm trying to figure out if this is what's causing my problems or if I actually have reason to feel this way. I guess I'm in limbo right now trying to figure things out.
I really hope it's me & not my girlfriend, but I guess only time will tell.
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