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Sep 18, 2009, 08:47 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2009
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When you say you wrote some "not very nice things" to T, do you mean *about* T or that you were expressing some feelings that you dont like having about something else? I totally understand your feelings if they are about T – it is scary to confront T.
T is there to support you, and if that involves dealing with negative feelings you have towards her, she will be happy to help. My guess is that whatever the "not very nice things" are, she will welcome your blog and it will help her to help you in your RL.
In my experience, Ts very rarely get angry with patients even when we have negative feeling towards them. They are there to absorb our s*** so they can help and understand us, but they dont take it personally, and if your T is good she wont become defensive -she will want to help you however she can. I am sure she will be pleased that you have spoken honestly about how you are truly feeling.
You did a good thing posting the blog- that is what it is there for- so you can let T know what is going on- good or bad. I bet you will be surprised and relieved at Ts response 
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