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Old Sep 18, 2009, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Sannah View Post
This seems reasonable. It is funny how we read so much into things. I remember doing this. We can write entire novels about one sentence. We probably do this because we live in our heads so much instead of just out in the real world. Oh do I remember...........
Sannah,

Well, as it turns out, i did sort of read in -- feeling that she didn't care about my concerns. Turns out she was busy doing something insurance related. I need to figure out how to stop "reading into" things. What happens is that intellectually, i figure she's probably just very busy, but emotionally, my heart sinks and i feel anxiety. Always that "fear" that i've done something to make her stop caring or that she is sick of me and doesn't want to work with me anymore. I know it's probably irrational. But the emotions that come up are so unpleasant!