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Originally Posted by coconut64
(((((((((((((( peaches )))))))))))))))) I know this probably brings up a lot of feelings like abandonment or rejection, but I agree with everyone here. She probably didn't have time that day and will address your emails in session. It sounds like you wrote about very important issues, I'm sure she wanted to craft an adequate response but she was just having a busy day. I hate when T triggers something painful when they don't mean to. They have that power unfortunatedly.
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Yes, about that power. I told t awhile back that this is what i really dislike about getting attached. . . that another person's actioin (or inaction) can result in me feeling so upset or hurt. If i didn't care, i wouldn't need the reply or be hurt without it. But when i feel attached and reach out, and she can't be there, it feels awful. I know others might disagree that the t has power, but to me, this is power. It's not t's fault, but it's power nontheless. . .that what she does can make such a difference to me.