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Originally Posted by peaches100
I need to figure out how to stop "reading into" things. emotionally, my heart sinks and i feel anxiety. Always that "fear" that i've done something to make her stop caring or that she is sick of me and doesn't want to work with me anymore. I know it's probably irrational. But the emotions that come up are so unpleasant!
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This is always the way it is. The healing needs to come emotionally. I would think if you worked on healing the original wound then it can't be triggered anymore.
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Originally Posted by peaches100
I know others might disagree that the t has power, but to me, this is power. It's not t's fault, but it's power nontheless. . .that what she does can make such a difference to me.
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I agree with Melbadaze, this power that T has, we have given to her, though the giving is from inaction on taking our power.
But if you heal those wounds you wouldn't be so vulnerable and it would be easier being close to others.