Dwayne I am so sorry to hear about this. Your poor dad is wanting to get out for a little bit. What I would do is call the church up, and tell them to say something to you first.What I would say to them is consult me first, and please do not say anything to my dad. What's happening is they are getting your dad's hopes up to get out for a little bit, and then he finds out that he can't go, and he gets so upset about it. Which is understandable. I would call the Dr. and see if he is able to get out at all. Maybe the two of you can go do something together. Go out to eat, or take a stroll in the park, watch a movie, something like that.