(((theotterone)))
My husband can be an angry man too. I have done my fair share of walking on eggshells during our 10 years together.

Our childhood experiences are so similar and I have learned that frequently in women anger turned inward = depression and self blame
In men (they want to "fix" things) the depression is anger turned outward they want to blame others.

Be patient and love him. My H recently got back on his antidepressant meds and he has been so much better.