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Originally Posted by peaches100
I told t awhile back that this is what i really dislike about getting attached. . . that another person's actioin (or inaction) can result in me feeling so upset or hurt. If i didn't care, i wouldn't need the reply or be hurt without it. But when i feel attached and reach out, and she can't be there, it feels awful.
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I wonder also if it was secure attachment then you wouldn't doubt your T's care so much. With insecure attachment, we're insecure about whether they truly care and value us. I agree with Sannah about healing original wounds--that can pave the way for a more secure attachment.