This is SO true. I've noticed a huge internal shift lately, and I think it's secure attachment. I love T, and I know he loves me, but he doesn't have the POWER over me that he used to have. I don't jump to the worst conclusion when he doesn't call, and I don't doubt that he does care for me. It feels so different...and so much better.

I wish I knew how I got this point...I honestly think it was a result of the Summer of Ruptures...we had to work through SO MUCH STUFF, but we did it, and came out on the other side. So, peaches, I guess I would just say to you to be as honest as you can with your T about how you're feeling. It seems like that's the only way I can ever really move forward.

to you!