My Support Forums - View Single Post

Elysium · Sep 18, 2009, 09:46 PM

I appreciate that you are so supportive of everyone, but I am sorry to hear that you are choosing to no longer seek support for yourself at this time.

Please remember, this IS a choice that YOU are making.

Personally, (my opinion ~ I know, you didn't ask) I think you could learn and grow more by continuing to look for support, while at the same time working toward accepting that support. I also think it would be good practice for you to improve the emotional mind/rational mind balance to get you to more of a wise mind place. This takes practice!! And if you just stop, then you will not be able to build your skills.

I feel you see this in a black and white way...we are either good people or we are bad people. We are either for you, or against you. Really, it is more about dialectics!! We are for you, yet we can see where you can make improvements and we want to offer our support and opinions on how you could do this. It is possible for something to be good and bad at the same time. It's about balance.

Anyway...if you've made up your mind...no one here is going to change it. Just know that YOU can change it at anytime and we will be here when you decide you are ready to learn, grow, and ask for support. After all...that's why we're all here!!