An author and Freudian friend of mine recently told me that all mammals have an inherit bisexual nature. He said that if it wasn't so we would never meet up. That makes sense to me. It is important not to beat yourself up for being human and having such fantasies. All of our fantasies don't need to be acted out. Freud owned his homoerotic fantasies but as far as anyone knows he didn't act them out. As my old teacher on the alcoholic ward once said, " A person can be born an alcoholic, live his whole life an alcoholic, and die an alcoholic with out ever taking a drink of alcohol his whole life." Each person has to figure out for themselves where they want to go.
I hope that this has help some ~ Shoe