My husband too! He lives in a sea of estrogen (we have 2 daughters and even the dog is female) stuck on an ADD ship! (All three of us girls are some type of ADHD). Hang in there! A psych doctor is a better option as they have more information, but do what you can. I am lucky to have insurance through my husband's work and can see a private doctor. Check out your county's options. There are doctors who will work with a sliding scale for payment!