Hi Sombra...

I am a man and have been for nearly a half century... But for a squiggling chromosome I would be a woman...

I have spent much of the last twenty years learning to express that 49% percent of me,,that part of me squashed under generational stereotypes based upon some long established roles...

You are 49% male with all the base issues that maleness would and does bring...including some aspects of sexuality.

I have found it "nice" to become more comfortable with my feminine side and lessen my learned attachments to expectations that my maleness brings...both from without and wthin.

Our existence is upon a continum in so many ways and trying to pick a point upon it suitable to some definition, I believe, strangles our potential...

With Care,

Lenny