My husband and I have been married for 18 yrs,we have two teenage daughters.For most of the 18 yrs my husband has done some really bad things.In the last3 to 5 yrs my husband has lied more than he has told the truth.Since 2007 I have caught my husband making obscene phone calls to woman ,some of whom we know the others were random.I have caught him communicating with a woman on the computer and him lieng about being at work when he had gone to her home.And most recently I caught him having what I call an emotional affair with a girl I know, I am devastated everything that he has ever done he claims is my fault he never admits anything is his fault .These things that I have listed above are just the most recent , there are alot.I am sick of him blaming me and telling me i am bi polar when its very clear that he is the one who has the problem so please somebody tell me what is wrong with my husband