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Originally Posted by lesasworld
For as long as I can remember I get madly, insanely jealous when my significant other so much as talks to the other gender. I actually get psychotic and get enraged where I cannot control what I am doing. It's a very horrible feeling to feel that way and be so stupidly jealous and it drives me nuts! At the moment I am single but I most certainly DO NOT want to get into that behavior again. So can anyone relate? Maybe someone has some suggestions on how to get over it.
Thanks!
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If I may tell you a bit of myself - I KNOW that all too well.
I think I've kind of figured it out.
I believe if I am feeling that way - then what I really am is
insecure in the relationship, so I shouldn't be in it.
Something about just isn't right.
If I felt the relationship was equal then I should feel comfortable about it.
Besides I also have another opinion - I can not accept the fact that Men and Women cannot be in a relationship and have friends of the other gender.
My opinion - but that's all that counts