hey hon

i'm so sorry for what you are going through

you sound so very sad

have you tried talking this over, with your partner?
are they willing to listen?

for myself, i was once in a relationship where i was not getting any of my needs met, yet i was trying so hard to meet HIS needs.

eventually i had to face the fact that he was not going to meet any of my needs and in fact didn't care that they were going unmet.
i moved on - and i did find a partner who cares very much about what i need, and tries hard to give it to me
time, caring, affection and attention - and he 'hears' me when i speak.

i hope you can find what you need - but sweetie life is way too short to continue being in a desert of a relationship.
i wish you the very best
here if you want to talk