Hey girl,

Speaking from experience. I am in the middle of getting separated from my partener and losing my home and I know how it feels to be in a one sided relationship.

If you feel that your needs are not being met, then communicate that to your partener and if nothing changes, move on, and believe I know it's easier said than done but I'm right where you are right now. He didn't tell me he wanted to sell the house and end our relationship until he had already found someone else and was already over me, and now I'm stuck living in the same house with him as roommates, and it's torture because I'm still in love with him and he looks at me like I'm nothing, but looking back to the six years I spent with him, I always listened to him and gave him everything he wanted, and even sacrificed my desire to start a family and get married because he didn't want those things, and he still left, so it was always one sided. I'm 37 and it's going to be hard to find someone that's going to want the same things as I do at my age than if I were younger. It's going to hurt whether you stay or leave, but be strong and listen to your head, not just your heart, and you'll be okay. We'll all get through this together.

Best of luck.

Deedee