I'm female and I have that problem pic. It's been so intense that I have never been married. I'm 41 and past my prime. I had a couple chances to marry good guys, but ran away. I hope you can get past your nervousness. Maybe you can join some sort of a support group or an activity group where you hang around a group interested in the same activities. That would let you get to know people slower and maybe not be as nervous around the ladies.