I never knew a person could use my user name and look up my posts. I guess I thought it was happening only blew it off as a delusion. I would say this guy is not a very good boyfriend of he is doing this. I would look at it as a violation of trust. It seems like if you stayed together with him, if it starts small by reading your posts, then perhaps he would be controlling and do things like have you followed or tape record your phone calls. It is the best to have gotten away from him early on.

Im changing my email name I think. Hope all goes well for you and all others with this issue. Take Care, Kris