i'm much more comfortable with women and i've always had female Ts except for a coach/counselor i worked with briefly. he was actually very helpful but realized he really wasn't supposed to be doing counseling, even though he was the one who suggested it, and then suddenly dumped me and all his other counseling clients. yeesh. i had called for coaching. i had started developing erotic transference (et) with him and didn't know what in the heck that was at the time. now i've got the dreaded et with my friend i help out spiritually. i think i'll stick with women Ts for now since one et at a time is plenty.