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Old Sep 21, 2009, 12:16 PM
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Everyone, I am SO relieved to hear that I'm not the only one who has ever felt this way. I would never do ANYTHING to harm the relationship, or to try and make myself like T less, but the thought of what it would be like lingers in my mind. But still, I'm glad I'm not alone.

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Originally Posted by jacq10 View Post
If you try and hold on to (protect) your relationship with your T too much, the opposite will most likely happen (i.e., the relationship will experience strain in some respect). So instead of trying to remain in complete control (by protecting the relationship, OR yourself by becoming angry), just experience it as it is, and trust that your T will understand and stay with you.
I have never thought of it like this before, but this makes SO much sense to me. Thank you.
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Thanks for this!
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